jueves, 17 de agosto de 2017

5 formas de matar tus sueños.

Hace poco decidí seguir mis sueños y trabajar duro para conseguir ganar lo equivalente a un sueldo de jornada completa con mi blog. He estudiado a otros/as bloggers, sus trucos, sus ecourses etc. Pero de vez en cuando me siento frustrada.

Una de esas veces encontré esta charla de TED talks y creo que merece la pena compartirla. 

Bel Pesce habla en esta charla sobre las 5 cosas que NO hay que hacer para conseguir tus sueños. Ya sea conseguir un trabajo nuevo o entrar en la mejor universidad.



Aún no he ganado dinero con el blog pero ¡lo haré!


TED talk to live by

Recently I decided to follow my dreams and be successful with  my blog, of course this means to earn a full time income with it. 
I've been studying other bloggers tips, e-courses and blog posts on how they did it and I found myself overwhelmed. Then, suddenly I came across this TED talk you need to see!

This speaker is called Bel Pesce, a Brazillian woman who worked for really big companies and wrote 3 books.


In this talk, she shows what Not to do when following your dreams. A must watch for every blogger feeling discouraged. 

Disclaimer
I haven't earned anything with my blog yet but I WILL.




miércoles, 16 de agosto de 2017

Cómo hacer una cabecera para blogger

Si estás pensando en comenzar tu propio blog, o quieres personalizar el que ya tienes, te estarás preguntando como hacer tu propia cabecera. 

martes, 15 de agosto de 2017

Encuestas telefónicas

Últimamente he tenido varias incidencias con mi servicio de Internet en casa por lo que he tenido que llamar varias veces a quejarme, por lo que han venido en varias ocasiones técnicos de mantenimiento a "arreglar" el problema.

Durante la llamada, los/las operadores/as te informan de que te realizarán una encuesta para conocer la calidad de la atención, lo cual me parece acertado para asegurarse de que los clientes están satisfechos con los/las trabajadoras.

Pero hoy quiero compartir algo que me sucedió en la última visita del técnico.

Como ocurrió anteriormente, llamé para que me solucionaran un problema con el router y me informaron de que un técnico se pondría en contacto conmigo, me preguntaron a qué hora podía acercarse (al lo que contesté que en horario de mañana) y me tomaron los datos.

Al día siguiente esperé durante toda la mañana pero el técnico no me llamó. Esa misma tarde tenía un compromiso al que asistir sobre las 8 de la tarde. A la 6:30 me llamó el técnico, le dijimos que teníamos que salir y que podía venir al día siguiente pero él insistió en venir hoy. 

Se presentó en casa en menos de media hora y la experiencia fue, cuanto menos, desagradable.

Como siempre hago con todos los trabajadores que vienen a casa, le ofrecí un vaso de agua y el me dijo que no le apetecía. Todo normal ¿verdad?

Pues no, este hombre fue muy condescendiente durante todo el servicio, contestaba de malas maneras y fue muy grosero en todo momento. Pero lo dejé pasar porque supuse que su malestar no tendría que ver conmigo...

Lo peor llegó cuando me informa de la encuesta telefónica. Él, con su mala forma de hablar, me dice que me van a hacer una encuesta para determinar la calidad del servicio proporcionado y que le TENGO que dar un 9. Le contesté que  vale, pensando que esa encuesta me la harían, como siempre,  unas horas mas tarde mediante llamada telefónica; y de repente lo veo coger el teléfono y hacer una llamada, me pasa esta llamada y se trata de ¡la encuesta! Esta persona quería que yo valorase su atención positivamente y delante suya... pero no, no lo hice. Le di la valoración que creía merecía y cuando me oyó ¡ME GRITÓ!

Obviamente he llamado a la compañía para que abran una investigación sobre el problema. pero

¿Qué opináis de lo ocurrido? 

Sé que no es el tipo de entradas al que estáis acostumbrados/as, pero tenía que contarlo en alguna parte.



lunes, 14 de agosto de 2017

Como perdí 12 kilos en 2 meses

Hola a todos/as!

Como dije anteriormente en mi blog, el año pasado perdí 12 kilos en tan sólo 2 meses, cosa que nunca pensé que podría ocurrir al tener hipotiroidismo.

Pero, ¿qué hice?

Pues un día estaba metida en las redes sociales y vi un anuncio de Groupon en el que ofrecían un servicio dietético a muy bajo precio. Como soy muy desconfiada hice un poco de investigación sobre esta página y vi, para mi sorpresa, que tenía opiniones muy buenas así que me dije ¿por qué no?

Tenía ganas de perder peso y era un servicio muy completo, consistía en 9 semanas de dietas personalizadas y asesor por 9€.

Al entrar a la página tuve que rellenar un formulario con todos mis datos y medidas para que me hicieran la dieta personalizada.

Pensé que iba a ser una de esas dietas difíciles de seguir y en las que "te mueres de hambre", pero no,para mi sorpresa tenía que comer mucho, ¡incluso más de lo que suelo comer!

Eso sí, solo podía comer los alimentos permitidos, muchas frutas y verduras y carne magra. 



Este servicio del que hablo se llama Dietaris, no estoy de ningún modo afiliada a ellos así que ésta opinión es 100% mía.



En la página podéis encontrar una dieta tipo de prueba, pero os recomiendo que lo probéis ya que a mí me dio muy buenos resultados.
Por desgracia, dejé la dieta y he vuelto a coger una gran parte de los kilos que perdí pero por eso decidí hacer este post, porque desde hoy ¡lo vuelvo a intentar!


How I lost 12 kilos in 2 months

I told you guys in my life update that I lost 12 kilos in just 2 months. I honestly never thought it would be possible and I know that I would have lost many more if I had kept up with it.

As I told you in a number of occasions, I have hypothyroidsm, so I really didn't think I would lose weight "so easily".

What I did?

Well first of all I find a nutrition service online one day, it was total coincidence as I wasn't looking for anything like that but it caught my attention.

I did some research on them and it had really good reviews so I decided to give it a try.

I had to fill up a survey with all my information so they could give me a personalized diet and so I did.

To my surprise I had to eat a lot! I could eat as much as I'd please, of course of the things they'd allow.

I don't want to share a specific diet because I believe they work hard to make them and are 100% personalized. But it basically consisted of lean protein, frui and vegetables.



This service is called  Dietaris, this post is in no way affiliated or sponsored by them. I just simply tried them and loved them. 

And I decided that today I'm signing up again to lose the weight I gained and maybe a little bit more!

I don't know if they offer their services in English but if you can, try them!


domingo, 13 de agosto de 2017

Two Summer snacks

Happy Sunday!

Since it's Sunday I wanted to bring you something different and I thought these two very easy recipes I made today would do it!

These "recipes" (to call it something) are obviously not mine but they're so good, refreshing and healthy that I thought you'd want to try them too.

Watermelon lemonade

This refreshing drink is perfect for the hot summer months. What you'll need to make it will be:

2 cups of seedless watermelon
The juice of one lemon
1 cup of ice
Sweetner of choice

Simply blend it all together and  voilà! You have the perfect drink for everyone!



Fruit Kebabs

An easy and fun way to eat the fruit you have in your kitchen and a fun way to serve it in a party.
All you need is as much fruit as you want!



viernes, 11 de agosto de 2017

Friday Favorites

Favorite blog

Color U Bold

Beautiful photography, fun style and such a sweet girl. She remains my favorite!


Favorite pair





Favorite find






Por qué dejé Facebook

Desde que me abrí mi primera cuenta en MySpace a los 17 años he usado las redes sociales muchísimo. Tengo cuenta en casi todas ellas... 



Siempre me gustó mucho la idea de mantenerse al día con las noticias y acontecimientos especiales en la vida de mis conocidos y conocidas, e incluso el poder conocer gente afín mediante las redes sociales.

Todos estaremos de acuerdo en que son unas herramientas geniales y  nos permiten hacer muchas cosas, pero también son muy adictivas.

Hace un tiempo desactivé mi cuenta de Facebook y desinstalé la aplicación del móvil. Me desconecté durante un tiempo de las demás redes sociales y el cambio me encantó.

Estaba más presente en el momento pero sobre todo estaba más feliz. Dejé de obsesionarme por la vida "perfecta" de los demás, dejé de comparar los progresos de otros con los míos y dejé de ver el lado negativo de las personas. 

Porque, admitámoslo, por más fotos perfectas que subamos, por más poses, filtros y aplicaciones de edición que usemos, siempre hay alguien que tiene algo negativo que decir. Para mi ese bombardeo de negatividad y de "vidas perfectas" fue demasiado.

Ahora he vuelto a las redes sociales pero con nueva perspectiva... ¿qué hago para evitar que me afecte?

Desde que volví a las redes sociales tengo un horario. Intento no mirar el móvil al despertarme, dejo mi teléfono en el bolso y solo uso las redes sociales lo justo y necesario para trabajar (después de todo llevar un blog y promocionarlo es un trabajo, pagado o no.)



Intenta limitar el uso de las redes sociales, borra tus aplicaciones del móvil si te hace falta para ganar perspectiva y verás como tu vida mejora en muchos aspectos. Y sobre todo, no compares tu vida con lo que ves de los demás en las redes, no olvides que todos compartimos nuestros mejores momentos.



Why I quit blogging

Some of you may not know but I started my blog in 2014, however I stopped blogging for more than a year.

I wrote about one of the reasons I stopped in my life update post, but that's only part of the reason.

When most bloggers start blogging, they do it, we do it because we love writing, we think we have a platform where we can do so, and potentially find people interested in what we have to say.

Photo by Corinne Kutz on Unsplash

All that sounds great but, then why did I quit?

In all honesty, I felt discouraged. I started blogging not only to find people who would love reading my “articles” but because I wanted to earn money with it. Don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with wanting to get paid for blogging, after all it takes a lot of work (and I'm obviously still trying to monetize my blog). But I found myself focusing too much on numbers.

I started checking every few minutes to see if the numbers increased, I kept checking adsense to see if the money increased. And for a moment it did, and it felt good but then I realized...

People are not reading because they love what I talk about, who sees my blog in reality? Who reads my words?

I'll tell you who, other bloggers, but how many of them actually read everything? Very few...

So to whoever sees this, whoever reads this... If you feel like this too, if you feel like your effort isn't bringing you anything, leave a comment down below.

And to those of you who know how to reach your audience, please help all the one's looking for help too.

jueves, 10 de agosto de 2017

¿Para cuándo tú?

¿Cuándo piensas tener hijos? ¿Cuándo me vas a hacer tío/tía?

Desde hace un tiempo oigo estas preguntas cada vez mas a menudo. Parece ser que una vez que pasas de los 25, todo el mundo tiene prisa con el hecho de que seas madre.

miércoles, 9 de agosto de 2017

When will you have a baby?

Why is it OK for people to ask women when we're approaching a certain age (I'm 28 guys chill out!) when we will have a baby?

I definitely want to have a baby someday but, why do I have to have it now? Why do I have to have it before 30?

While I understand why 30 might be biologically late to have baby, I believe in today's society women can and should have children whenever they're ready.

As for me, I will have kids, but not now. I want to be selfish, I don't want to have that responsibility yet, and I shouldn't be scolded or lectured for feeling this way.




Our twenties are the time for that. It's our time to be selfish, to find ourselves and to make mistakes.

So, if you had children before 30, good for you. If you had children after 30, good for you. And if you don't want to have kids at all, then that's also good.

Society shouldn't tell us what to do.

It's your body, it's your life. Live it as you please.


martes, 8 de agosto de 2017

How did you let yourself get so fat!

A few days ago I went back to my hometown and met a friend from when I was younger and, believe it or not, this was the first thing he said to me: "wow you're so much bigger, how did you let yourself get so fat?"

I must admit I let that get to me, I felt very insecure already and then someone who was supposedly my friend said that? 

As the day went by I found myself feeling more and more down and just plain worse. But then I started getting angry. Not at him for saying that but at myself for "letting myself get this fat".

Let me take you down memory lane before I tell you how. 

As I have stated before in previous posts, I had an eating disorder when I was younger. I was never "fat" but I definitely thought I was. (Okay let me take a deep breath before I show you these embarrassing pictures of my younger self).

This pictures are before my eating disorder. I don't feel comfortable showing the pictures where I was sick because they're painful to watch and sadly, they might be triggering...

Now I have gained more than 20 kilos, but how? 

First of all I never had healthy habits to begin with. Where I lived we always ate fried things or takeaway. I was lucky I had a fast metabolism. So when I started living on my own I didn't know what healthy eating was, I continued eating the way I had been taught. 

I wouldn't put on any weight anyways, however something happened. My clothes started to shrink, or that's what I'd tell myself. I looked bigger but I didn't want to see it, I was in denial. Until one day, for some reason I went to the pharmacy on my way home from work and decided to check my weight. I was shocked! I had put on so many kilos! So of course I went home and didn't leave my room until the next day, I couldn't stop crying.

I decided to start a diet the next morning, but to my surprise I kept gaining weight. I, then, decided to get a blood test and I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism. In that moment I didn't know what it meant, I had never heard of it to be honest. I was given medicine and I never took them.

I kept trying to lose weight for years and never took the medicine I was supposed to take, until I told my best friend, who had the same problem as me.  

She scared me to death! So recently I took it serious. I researched about it and now I am taking the medicine. I found a nutritionist who really helped (I tried a few but they didn't help with my thyroid problem). She helped me lose 12 kilos in just a few months (but that's a whole different post!)

So that's how I gained so much weight, I ate bad, I didn't exercise and I had a health problem.

If any of this sounds like you, get checked and do your research! Don't rely on just one person's opinion or "knowledge".

As for my friend, no one should ask something like that, or comment on anyone's weight gain or loss, but again I'll leave that for another post.

Until then, take care of yourself!



lunes, 7 de agosto de 2017

Life Update

Hello everyone!

As you may know, I started this blog as a way to keep motivated to lose weight, but that didn't happen. Instead I found a passion for writing and giving advice on how to improve your life in other ways... not everything has to be about weight am I right?

Somewhere along the way I felt unmotivated, I lost my creativity and I felt discouraged by life problems that didn't have anything to do with me, but that I had made mine.

However, I felt something missing, and I took some time offline to find myself again. I even deleted Facebook! 

It's been a long time and I feel like I need to learn to blog again but I thought to begin with a little life update.


Las year I got married! 

Other things have happened during this time but they have more to do with my sister than with y own life; so I don't feel right talking about it.

As I said earlier, I started this blog to help me lose weight but I found that harder than I expected. However, last year, and in preparation to my wedding, I lost 12 kilos! 

I'm still in the process since I gained a little bit of that weight back but it's Monday and I decided today is the day! 

I can't wait to share the results with you and for you guys to follow along.

I never thought I'd be able to lose so much weight, but I did. And if I can, you can too!